One of the goals of our journey is to get to know other places, people and cultures. Right now, we mainly get to know other places. It is tougher than expected to meet local people and their traditions.
Here on the Croatian island Krk, for example, wild camping is forbidden. There is no agritourismo like in Italy, i.e. local farmers that rent their place out and cook authentic meals for their guests. So we mostly check into camping sites. We have the choice between small, family led camping sites and the big camping chains that offer all conveniences. Here, Luca and Lou are more likely to find other children to play with. Or they have playgrounds, pools and other activities that are interesting for them – which gives Marian and me some space for ourselves and some time to work. When you are so close to each other all of the time, these moments are pure gold! The contact with locals, of course, equals zero. Big camping sites are Little Germany at that time of the year. Which makes us ask ourselves whether we are really traveling the world or just making a very prolonged holiday.
Right now, it feels like the latter. I sit here with my latte macchiato with a splendid view of the calm sea. Instead of feeling guilty, I consciously decide to enjoy this to the max. There will be other countries, other seasons and other opportunities to feel closer to land and people.
We have just arrived at a small, calm and beautiful agritourism close to Punat on the island Krk. I should feel great. We have finally arrived at a campground that I like. However, I do not. And I feel that I want to write why.
I was sitting in the shade, chilling, going through my Facebook feed and reading lots of shocking things – today mainly about the burning Amazon. I feel hurt, hopeless and sorry for my kids. I know that I am supposed to focus my attention on the positive in order to create the positive. However, I am not able right now. There are two actions the world needs the most right now: raising consciousness and planting trees!
I want my kids to enjoy nature today as well as in ten years. If we continue the way we are doing now, this will be impossible. It feels ironic for me to think about the feedbacks I often receive, telling people that we travel with the money others save for their retirement. If it comes to that topic, we think about a lot of financial measures to have a life in the future after we will stop working. However, if we do not change our impact on the environment, our biggest concern won’t be our pension fund but enough air to breathe, clean water to drink and fresh food to eat.
No one – neither the rich nor the poor – will be able to breathe, drink or eat money. We will not reach our retirement (if we need to retire at all) – definitely not our kids. In fact, the best investment we can do is to plant trees. If we invest half of our savings in planting trees, this ensures that we can at least use and enjoy the other half.
Let’s go ahead, for our planet, our kids and the generations to come. Let’s inspire, create the new - passing the Trumps and Bolsonaros of this world.
We put our website address on our mobile home for a reason: We invite people to inquire about us, our journey and the background of our journey. We want to answer questions. And questions there are! One of the most frequent ones is: Don’t your children have to go to school?
No. For a year or more, Luca and Lou are off school. And they learn a lot in that time: They get to know other countries, other people, other cultures, other ways of life. They expand their horizon.
So what about the school curriculum? Well, we see to it that Luca and Lou regularly write, read and do maths: They write postcards to their friends at home. They read brochures of the places we visit. They calculate how much the coffee we drink at the Croatian beach bar would cost in Switzerland (14 Kuna : 7 = 2 Swiss Francs). This allows them at the same time to learn that other countries have different currencies and different prices. Also, they are allowed to google every question that occurs to them during the trip. Where are we? Why did they fight here during World War One? Why is the sea salty? Is the huge butterfly we saw really a butterfly or a moth? What is the difference between the two?
The only challenge lies in our own reactions that sometimes occur. When we worry, for example, when 21:7 results in 4 or is impossible to calculate for Luca in the first place. These situations only lead to one thing: Us reflecting ourselves, our expectations and our own conditioning. We learn to let go of these.
To learn from experience and be lead by interest: This is our motto. That means that we consciously do not follow the regular school curriculum. The German neurobiologist Gerald Hüther expresses exactly our philosophy when he says:
„You could ask yourself what is more important for your child: To have an education that helps him or her to live a happy life? Or an education that helps him or her to be successful? That is not the same! People who are extremely sucessful are often presented to us as shining examples. But few of them succeed in staying successful for a long period of time. (...)
So parents have to decide: If their child should be successful, they need a good school education. If their child should be happy, they need a good formation. This can not be learnt at school, but in daily family life.“ (You can read the highly informative interview here in German.)
In our view, leading a successful life is leading a happy life. In this sense, we close this blog with another quote by Prof. Hüther: „The most important task parents have today is to save their children from the pressure that is put upon them by society.“
We are doing our best.
PS: The canton of Bern, where we lived, leaves parents the responsibility for their children. It has home schooling friendly regulations. If a family is on the road for more than three months, like in our case, things get even easier: All you do is write a letter to the headmaster and sign out of school. That's what we did. Yes, we were lucky. But honestly: Stricter regulations would not have stopped us. Where there is a will, there is a way.
PPS: In the beginning of this year, I was happy to interview Prof. Gerald Hüther on the power of words and an appreciative communication between parents and their children. You can watch it here (in German).
After a windy good-bye from Slovenja, we decided to go directly towards Croatia and the Adriatic Sea today. We have stranded at Camping Njivice on the island Krk, where we were lucky again to get the last available spot (n° 46) – in direct vicinity of the beach.
The scenery could not be more different than from calm, green Triglav: It is crowded, it is hot, I see burnt backs, beer bottles beside towels (and beer bellies on the towels), shops selling fresh fruit and plastic toys. Meanwhile, the beach bar offers creative workshops for adults to re-use plastic waste... It is fun :-).
We are just encountering the Bora for the first time. Strong wind gusts of over 50 km/h make our camper sway to and fro. A bit spooky... It will be interesting to get some sleep like this. The Bora is one of the strongest winds and usually blows at the Adriatic coast. It seems to start as far up as Slovenia. We will stay here in Ajdovščina for one night only.
I, Karin, am sitting at Split airport right now. I am going back to Switzerland for five days in order to give a language course with a Swiss Federal Department and have meetings with other clients. Although we give it a lot of attention in our daily life to live in a nature friendly way, there seemed to be no alternative to booking a flight for this trip: neither the time nor the cost was in any way comparable with any other travelling mean.
Some weeks ago, we met a lovely family from the Netherlands who have been traveling the world in their self built expedition mobile for the last 15 years. They have been to Iceland many times before and advised us not to take the ferry from Denmark to Iceland next year, but to ship Max from Rotterdam while we fly to Iceland instead. This is not cheaper, but way nicer than spending five days on a swaying ship in the North Atlantic sea, with no access to our mobile home during the trip. So... flying again?
It makes us feel uncomfortable to use a plane (knowing that using a ship is hardly any better). We are aware that they pollute the air and the environment big time. Yet we realize how difficult it is to refrain from traveling this way. It is easy, it is fast – and it is very cheap. It costs less to take a plane from Croatia to Switzerland than to take the train from Basel to Berne. Considering this, we believe that there is no way enough people – even those caring for the environment – will change their way of behaviour as long as these price differences exist.
We know that we are responsible for our behavior (and more). We know that it is in our hands to make decisions to live in a nature friendly way. We tried to find an alternative fuel for Max at the very beginning, wanting to try out promising new technologies. We did not succeed and are now using a truck that consumpts 15 l of gasoline per 100 km. Now, we are struggling again with the flying issue.
While writing this, we understand how little we still do. We’d love to say that we reduce or avoid waste, but this is unfortunately not true, buying products in supermarkets that are along the route. Everything is wrapped up in plastic. In Bosnia, we even failed to separate our trash, as there are no facilities provided for this. Everything is mixed up - or lands on the street in the first place.
At the moment, our way of contributing is to eat no or little meat, to use biodegradable detergents and cosmetic products only and to learn about the whole production chain before we consciously buy a (non-food) product. And of course, we give everyone a good slap or the deadly look who do not switch off their engine when getting off their car ;-).
We will find ways to improve. It is up to us.
Water is the predominant element of our trip so far. We have visited (and mostly bathed in) wonderful lakes: Klöntalersee (CH), Pragser Wildsee (I), Toblachersee (I), Wörthersee (A), and drove by many more. And now, we camp right at the border of the Soča river in Slovenia.
The Soča has a special energy – and a unique clear blue colour. It springs in the Triglav National Park, crosses over to Italy and flows into the Adriatic Sea later on. In Italy, the Soča is called Isonzo. The twelve „Isonzo battles“ in World War One are named after the river where they took place. It is hard to imagine that this wonderful place formed the scenery of such a dark and sad historical chapter.
The Soča is as cold as it is blue. This does not stop Marian and the kids from jumping into it. Especially Marian has made a habit out of taking a dip into the coldest water. It may have been me who attended a Wim Hof workshop in March 2018, laying down into the ice cold Aare for a minute or two. By now, it is him who practices the breathing and immersing into cold water (cold means below 10 degrees). Why would you do this? Because it strengthens your immune system, clears your mind and gives you a great feeling – right afterwards!
We are rolling our laundry these days. I never used this Marie Kondo method before. Now, in the mobile home, this is a space-saving and lucid way of putting our laundry away.
For people who do not believe that everything is energy and that energies influence our behaviour and our life: You better stop reading this blog here. Because that’s what it is all about.
The last three days in South Tyrol have been very demanding. Every day, either one of us felt that his or her needs were not fulfilled. First, I wanted to sightsee Meran (finally!), only to find out that the rest of the family did not share my enthusiasm. So we left after three hours. I was disappointed. Then, we came to the lovely Pragser Lake where Marian wanted to climb what seemed to be (well, it WAS) a steep, wet scree slope, so I was not excited. Marian was disappointed. The next day, Lou threw a tantrum because she felt we had chosen the worst place ever for her to climb – after we had patiently belayed both children for more than four hours. We were disappointed.
Every time, we ended up in a conflict. Every day, our mood turned bad even after a good start into the day. The atmosphere felt heavy, we felt heavy. Things did not go as smoothly as usual. We somehow felt that the surroundings were hostile. Yesterday evening, I felt so exhausted of calibrating the moods of all family members that I broke down into a sobbing mess when we did not find a nice place to put our mobile home for the night. It was a disaster.
Today, I woke up knowing what it was: It had to do with war - THE war! Although I had not spent a thought on it before, I all of a sudden was sure that we were in a place where war once raged in the past. We felt war energies! I got up at four in the morning to read all about World War One. And sure enough: We were placed near the „Drei Zinnen“, exactly where the front line of the horrid „Gebirgskriege“ lead through a hundred years ago. It was a sad, desperate and deadly place to be. Hundreds of thousands of men died there. And despite the fact that the Dolomites are a wonderful, highly frequented hiking region, it still carries these energies. They want to be healed. My own issues with war wanted to be looked at and be healed, too. It is no coincidence that we drove right there into the middle of it. Life always brings you where you need to be.
This morning, we left Northern Italy and drove to a nice camping place near Villach in Southern Austria. The conflicts are gone, the heaviness is gone. We feel light again.
What an adventurous day! We left Sölden to cross over to Italy via Timmelsjoch, a mountain pass 2'509 meters above sea level. Adventurous because of the curvy, steep street - and because we did not fill up "Max" before leaving... We basically rolled to the gas station arriving down in the valley on the Italian side - our brakes literally smoking.
After that followed lunch in beautiful Meran, which I decided to visit again with a friend instead of hungry family members... Our mood instantly increased, however, after we got hold of the last spot at the lovely camping site we are staying for tonight (Camping Ganthaler in Terlan).
Karin und Marian